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Putting the fest to bed

I wanted to write a general post with little bits and pieces, stories and skinner, before I forgot them and got straight back into real life.

I loved being at the fest this year. It was my first time ever that I went as an observer/writer/blogger, as opposed to performer or director, and the shift in stress levels was remarkable! My only wistfulness was that I had to drink all the wine at Bushman’s where I was staying, instead of in G’town, because I couldn’t drive drunk! I am also fired up about bringing work to the fest next year, which is a good sign.

Reasons (other than good shows) I loved the festival this year: I loved Garvey’s coffee at The Monument. I drove the 60 odd k’s in the morning for a macchiato in a real cup. More expensive than most of the meals I ate, but completely spectacular. I brought a bag of his coffee back for Big Friendly. I loved The Art Lounge and the cutey Argentinian boys who made great masala chai, gluwein, veg pies. It was bladdy cold hanging out there, but it was delicious. I loved Fusion (I think) at Cape Town Edge. Mark remembers everyone, and he makes us feel special. It’s also the best food, and jauling, at the fest. I loved being invited to perform at improv comedy at Cape Town Edge, as a fundraiser. I loved hanging with my little sisters and shooting the breeze, slagging off bad shows. Fiona (Shorty’s daughter) du Plooy and Candice (oh my word) D’Arcy are fantastic fest friends. I loved disagreeing with Simon Cooper about virtually every show we saw. I loved evening replays of some of the funny moments with Helen, Mike R, Anthony and Simon. I loved getting hopelessly lost and having Simon and Mike give up the best parking place to find me. I loved weeing with laughter at The Spur with Ntombi, Thembani and Connie. I loved banging into Strato, a Gtown local and friend, and catching up. I loved my chats to Toby and her sister about everything they had seen, and getting feedback on stuff I recommended. I loved Jon Keevy but didn’t see him enough. I loved free wi-fi at The Monument and at The Spur. I loved writing and posting reviews. I loved my media badge and bag, and all the comps I got, and the fantastic Cilnette in the media office. I loved being media (thanks Steve) and having more than my own blog to share my loud and opinionated voice with.

I hated the cold. I hated missing shows completely because of no electricity. I hated those moments where I realised I wasn’t going to see everything I was asked to see, and I saw the look I obviously gave every year to everyone, right back at me. I promise I’ll never do it again. I hated being so far away and leaving the passing of precious Bayla in the hands of Big Friendly. I hated that I was traveling home on my godson’s birthday! I hated that one or two rubbish shows got ‘ovations’ and accolades. I hated some CUE reviews. I hated what happened to the posters in the rain. I hated being manipulated into giving parking money by everyone who saw me leaving a parking spot even though I had found it all by myself.

I loved facebook and twitter and BBM for hooking me up, keeping me in touch and allowing me the occasional vent. It was a good one.

A day without shoes

Yesterday was the official “day without shoes” to create awareness for people who have no shoes. All good and well(ish), I guess, but in retrospect it was a moment of proper “slacktivism”.

I walked around barefoot yesterday. I saw the initiative on Facebook and it sounded like a good idea; one that was not difficult to follow and, if loads of people did it, a nice way to create awareness and get people to donate shoes. But, the reality was that it was a complete waste of time and here are some of the reasons why. Firstly, lots of people choose to go shoeless in Cape Town. It’s a hippy thing. Secondly, there was no collection point in Cape Town where you could drop off a pair of shoes. (I have a donated pair of real Crocs in the boot of my car, waiting for shoeless feet). Thirdly, unless you told people why you had no shoes on they just thought you were being dof, or Capetonian, or both. And then we had a sold out TheatreSports show last night and Brett and I played barefoot, but of course the audience had no idea why. Big flop, if you ask me.

So what is interesting to take away from the experience is that good intentions need proper support, good direction, good execution and real action to have an impact. Big Friendly warned me this morning that if it was No Underwear Day today he wasn’t going to play with. He has a nose for Slacktivism; where clicking a link to support a cause only has the effect of making the clicker feel better for two seconds.

So much for not walking around in someone else’s shoes for a day.

Make Over!

What do you think of meganshead’s new look? Feedback please. And muchos gracias to the main man Big Friendly for sexiness, stylishness, updatedness etc!

Aziz The Gardener

A split second decision not to take the old ladies to the beach but to our usual weekday park this morning led to an inspirational Sunday morning encounter.

It was still and getting warm as we dodged the sprinklers. Then I saw a dog arriving that I was sure we hadn’t met before and she was a pitbull that looked mean and dangerous. Big Friendly and I decided to avoid contact with her and we left the park via the far entrance and made our way to the field below, with the dogs at our heels.

We were walking along the edge of the field, along the fence which looks onto the back of the Nur Orphanage, when I noticed a man watering a gorgeous patch of garden. It was herbs and flowers and some veggies and sunflowers and geraniums and Okra and fennel. It was a heavenly patch of growing, there, along the fence. I spoke to the man, exclaiming, “what a lovely garden!” and he got really excited and enthusiastic. In absolutely broken English he told me he was Aziz, from Cairo, Egypt (he made pains to explain) and he had been in South Africa for 17 months. He loves Mandela, his one sunflower plant had 27! flowers (he called them fruit), he something something about a room and a lock, and he wanted to give me (he gestured with his hands in a cupped position) “plant with roots!”.

Before long I had a fist of basil leaves, mint and lemon geranium and firm instructions to wait. Next came two cosmos flowers and a tip of pink geranium. Then I had to wait while he cut a bunch of spinach and gently washed the leaves before putting them in a plastic packet. Finally he pulled out, washed and trimmed three green onions for me.

I got into the car, where Big Friendly and the old ladies were patiently waiting for me, with the fresh, fragrant and delicious smell of herbs, flowers and veggies.

Slightly stiff, slightly sunburned

I woke up this morning looking a bit like a cherry tomato. I forgot to put sun block on my face, thinking I would be protected by my (Jaqueline’s) wetsuit. When we stopped off at Jaqueline’s house for me to try on her wetsuit I wiggled into the bottom half and jumped a little over enthusiastically when she suggested I ‘jump myself in’. She was pulling at the back, you see, and I baleka’ed towards the coffee table and missed hitting it with my head by mere millimeters. I cowboy walked back to the car, before setting off to the surf shop to hire me a board.

Once the guy at the shop had established what I wanted and reiterated the fact that I would be doing very little besides walking the board into the waves and then turning it around and trying to get on it (right on every score), he gave me a thing called a soft board; similar in shape to a mini-mal but much more buoyant. Unfortunately Big Friendly had to carry the thing to the beach because my arms are too short to get it under my armpit, surfer style. I have to carry it with both hands. Before we left the guy said that the rental was for an hour and a half but I could have it for as long as I wanted. He wasn’t nervous that I wouldn’t be back within the allotted time. Right again.

It was great, great fun. It was my first time in a wetsuit. It was my first time on any board of any description, if you could call 10 seconds a pop being ‘on’ something. It was hard work. I am stiff this morning and I didn’t even ‘do’ anything. But I am already planning my week to include another session. Lucky I am underemployed at the moment.

Best Valentine’s prezzie ever.

Wave of Bliss

It’s a magnificent, quiet, still, hot Monday morning and I’m being taken to Muizenberg to play in the water with a rented mini-mal surf board. This is Big Friendly’s brilliant St Valentine’s day gift to me. Original, romantic, spectacular. I love it.

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